He only had that capacity because he was a computer consultant regarding the Y2k computer business. You dont have to be a rocket scientist to see that the “job” and the “money” ends with the new millennium. It is obvious that he has always tried to pay the ex what he could even though he’s now unemployed and himself living in poverty. His former wife is not broke. She’s living quite luxuriously… she stole tens of thousands and hid it in various accounts to which my husband never had access to nor knowledge of. Also last October, the judge took my husbands “final” pay check and gave it to the witch…
Leaving him with no money, all of the bills, and no job. what the heck is that? How does that benefit his 12 year old daughter? She was supposed to visit here during spring break last month but guess what?… no money to pay for it. Are men nothing more than wallets? Is it ok that because of the court system the child cannot spend time with the NCP?
“I” am paying the witch with my own money from a loan I took out, for God’s sake! Today My husband was told by the Friend Of the Court that he had to appear in court on the 19th of May or there would be a bench warrant. He has no means to travel to Michigan from Florida, he has no representation because we dont even have money for food, and they are threatening to put him in jail which they will surely do if he shows up there. What can we do??!! How is he supposed to find work to pay support from jail?
About the bankruptcy.. He can file, the thing is that if he does and the creditors go after his ex wife (and they will) the amount will be added to his Spousal support… and he still will owe what bankruptcy is supposed to eliminate. Sorta defeats the purpose. I guess the fact that ALL of those bills were HERS in the first place is what’s so sickening. There is no justice in the justice system.